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Old 02-06-2007, 07:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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A few months back one of our employees (ex now) was working in the evening. She claimed a man came in, asked her to show her all the beds, including the standup. Our standup is in the back of our salon. As she was talking to him and giving him all the details etc about the bed, she noticed he wasnt even paying attention, he was looking at her chest, and her whole body up and down. He touched her on the shoulder and sort of massaged it. So she quickly told the man to please stop, she sorta brushed his hand off and went directly to the front of the store where our 911 button is. He left asap.

A few months later, he came in again, asked to see the stand up and gave her the same speach he gave a few months back about not knowing about such a bed blah blah blah. This time she told him that its in the back and she only pointed him to the direction because she didnt want to go back there with him. He tanned in a laydown, and left.

Well I never could figure out who this guy was. I've never seen him, and Im here more then anyone else. So just about 20 minutes ago a man comes in. Claims he has tanned here before but heard we have a standup. He wanted to use it because he gets white marks down his sides. So I brought him back there chatted, he was very friendly, a little feminie. He wanted to know if he could tan in a laydown for 5 minutes, then go to the standup for another 5 minutes. I let him know that we dont allow that but i told him he could ask the owner, cause he kept questioning why I wouldnt let him. She was on the phone at the moment so I told him to wait a minute. He was looking around and I showed him some of the other beds, one that we've never used and our waxing room. At that point for some reason I felt uncomfortable so I started to back up and he said
"You know what you guys need! Turn around..." And my back was already facing him, so I started to turn towards him and he grabbed my shoulders, and massaged them...It was a nice massage but I backed away very very quickly because I remembered the creep that came in earlier...well after that he said "you know ill come back another time" and just sped off....

Now Im not sure if he is the same guy, but I have a gut feeling it probably is. Does this happen to you???
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Old 02-06-2007, 08:47 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Next time he comes in send him to your compitition...that's what I did with the transvestite (sp?) that came in our salon looking to try on bathingsuits.
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WTF is that $hit! I woulda kicked his a$$ outta the salon before he even had time to leave. I would have gone ghetto on his a$$ in a heartbeat, flippin' perv!!!
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Old 02-07-2007, 07:38 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Knee him in the balls!
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...It was a nice massage ...
First, you don't touch people that you don't know. It was a nice massage? You want to go into a little more detail on this part????

A massage or a touch doesn't have to be sexually oriented, but a guy knows better than to touch a woman that he doesn't know. You know after you get to know someone (men or women) when it's ok to touch someone while talking to them for emphasis in certain situations. But, that would be pat on the upper arm or on the shoulder, etc. You know when it is a comfortable situation and when it isn't. In a private setting like you described, I would not touch you, much less massage your shoulders, even if you asked. This guy is delusional and thinks that he is going to find a fantasy situation where he is going to start touching you and you are going to start stripping like some bad porn movie (or so I've heard).

Like Sundude says, if some pervert gets you into a situation like that, he knows what he is doing and you need to drop him like a bad habit. A knee in the nuts seems appropriate for starters. If you follow it up with a couple of good kicks after you get him down, that would be OK too.
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Great post billable....I totally agree!
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i was being sarcastic about the massage. sorry i didnt word it right to sound like that. but yes it was extremelly disturbing. and it didnt really hit me until after he left who he might be. atleast now i know what he looks like and if he does come back i will refuse him. eek. :(
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