Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him - tanTALK

missyhot · 03-30-2006, 02:21 PM

Dustin, r u saying these things from experience?

I want to say that a lot of woman (ME FOR ONE) since being back in the dating field, feel that way about men. I can't stand when I give a guy my number and he calls all the time. Most of them don't even get the hint when I don't return their phone calls and they continue calling. I've had guys telling me they want to move in with me after a few dates (not sex, DATES) and that sends me running. It works both ways. On the flip side, I recently found someone (VERY HOT) that I have very strong feelings for but I know better than to put myself out there. The more I play hard to get, the more he wants me. Sometimes it just feels like a big game.

Dustin · 03-30-2006, 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by missyhot

Dustin, r u saying these things from experience?

I want to say that a lot of woman (ME FOR ONE) since being back in the dating field, feel that way about men. I can't stand when I give a guy my number and he calls all the time. Most of them don't even get the hint when I don't return their phone calls and they continue calling. I've had guys telling me they want to move in with me after a few dates (not sex, DATES) and that sends me running. It works both ways. On the flip side, I recently found someone (VERY HOT) that I have very strong feelings for but I know better than to put myself out there. The more I play hard to get, the more he wants me. Sometimes it just feels like a big game.

Not from experience, it was an email I received, so I just posted it.
I know if you played hard to get with me, I would really WANT YOU

Dustin · 03-30-2006, 03:06 PM

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Listen...

Attractive, single, successful men are rare.

They get a LOT of attention from women.

Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women.

And guess what?

Attractive wen have usually dated a lot of women.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything...

It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives.

This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way...

JUST SOME USELESS INFORMATION

clubtan1 · 03-30-2006, 03:12 PM

Can I move this thread to the BFF thread?

Electric_Sun · 03-30-2006, 03:14 PM

Can you, Yes.
Will you, iono ~shrugs~

Dustin · 03-30-2006, 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clubtan1

Can I move this thread to the BFF thread?

No, I would have put it there if I wanted it there.

clubtan1 · 03-30-2006, 03:18 PM

Then I shall not move it.

Dustin · 03-30-2006, 03:19 PM

Thanks

bronzeman11 · 04-01-2006, 05:49 PM

Man i'm glad i'm not in the dating game. I started dating my wife when i was 15 & she was 13. Now 47 & 45. **** i'm old!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But i wouldn't even know how to play the game.

Dustin · 04-03-2006, 09:26 AM

That is good for you Bronze

03-30-2006, 02:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
missyhot I love Derf!! Join Date: Jun 30 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 1,649 Rep Power: 117	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Dustin, r u saying these things from experience? I want to say that a lot of woman (ME FOR ONE) since being back in the dating field, feel that way about men. I can't stand when I give a guy my number and he calls all the time. Most of them don't even get the hint when I don't return their phone calls and they continue calling. I've had guys telling me they want to move in with me after a few dates (not sex, DATES) and that sends me running. It works both ways. On the flip side, I recently found someone (VERY HOT) that I have very strong feelings for but I know better than to put myself out there. The more I play hard to get, the more he wants me. Sometimes it just feels like a big game.

03-30-2006, 03:06 PM	#3 (permalink)
Dustin Official BFF Member Join Date: Feb 10 2005 Location: CO Posts: 5,575 Rep Power: 25	Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on. Listen... Attractive, single, successful men are rare. They get a LOT of attention from women. Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women. And guess what? Attractive wen have usually dated a lot of women. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives. This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way... JUST SOME USELESS INFORMATION

03-30-2006, 03:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
clubtan1 Join Date: Jan 31 2005 Posts: 2,114 Rep Power: 57	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Can I move this thread to the BFF thread?

03-30-2006, 03:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
Electric_Sun Just chill out, will ya! Join Date: Feb 27 2006 Location: BFF Field Office #2 Posts: 445 Rep Power: 92	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Can you, Yes. Will you, iono ~shrugs~ __________________ Ban Virgin

03-30-2006, 03:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
clubtan1 Join Date: Jan 31 2005 Posts: 2,114 Rep Power: 57	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Then I shall not move it.

03-30-2006, 03:19 PM	#8 (permalink)
Dustin Official BFF Member Join Date: Feb 10 2005 Location: CO Posts: 5,575 Rep Power: 25	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Thanks

04-01-2006, 05:49 PM	#9 (permalink)
bronzeman11 Join Date: Oct 9 2004 Location: South Brunswick,N.J. Age: 65 Posts: 1,416 Rep Power: 52	Re: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Man i'm glad i'm not in the dating game. I started dating my wife when i was 15 & she was 13. Now 47 & 45. **** i'm old!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But i wouldn't even know how to play the game. __________________

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