Internet chatrooms. Is it cheating? - Page 4

Sol Sister · 09-20-2005, 11:18 AM

Cayenne that last post was good stuff- if the couple cares to work it out. One drunk night talking smack with girls on the internet- could be fun/funny... but crossing lines like being physical with someone else or repeated contacts with people on the internet that takes away from the real-life relationship- wrong for me, but everyone has their lines that they draw. These stories are always a wake-up for the things we need to clear up with our own significant others, good opportunity for those that haven't yet made their lines clear to do so. I am not at all a jaded gal- my experiences have taught me to be open to all the wonderful things a solid committed relationship can provide- and part of that is being vulnerable and trusting the other person to do the right thing, but also to always be my own person... not an outright "plan B" but a seperate identity and relationship with friends/family/co-workers- we are not totally enmeshed in each others identities (and it's been nearly 12 years with 2 kids). A friend of mine said this about his wife one day, and at the time I thought it a little harsh, but given more thought- I really like it, "More than I want her married to me, I want her to be happy." I actually find it a kind statement- I'm not in it to control or hold any one back, but I have boudaries and so does he- so what we do from there we choose and know the consequences/rewards...

jowango · 09-20-2005, 02:49 PM

There's nothing wrong with looking at the menue as long as you don't to eat what's available. When a women buys a magazine with Brad Pitt on the cover and reads about his love life while laying next to her man is it cheating?
Or is it just "reading"?

Sweetness · 09-20-2005, 02:54 PM

My brother in law, almost divorced his wife over it, things got out of hand, and she was basically bord with him. Now you can figure out the rest. They are still married and no MORE CHAT ROOMS!

CAYENNE2005 · 09-20-2005, 03:00 PM

Is there one with Brad Pitt naked, doing crazy things with certain things? I'Ll buy it! Does it have his email address so I can continue to comminacte with him on an hourly basis with pornographic conversation?? I'll do it!! Where can I get this?

electricparadise · 09-20-2005, 03:16 PM

Tsk! tsk!

paula · 09-20-2005, 03:34 PM

I watched my best friends marriage fall apart when his wife got hooked on chat rooms..It started out inocent and then she met a guy flew to the states to meet him ..her husband found and and wow what a mess...she told her husband she met a really nice lady who was married and had a family and she wanted her to fly to the states for a week. Her husband believed her bought her a plane ticket so she could go on this trip when he didn't hear from her for a couple of days he got someone to open up her chatroom files (cause He is computer stupid) and found out the name of the guy and the hotel they were staying in....needless to say they are divorced!!!!

paula · 09-20-2005, 03:35 PM

I watched my best friends marriage fall apart when his wife got hooked on chat rooms..It started out inocent and then she met a guy flew to the states to meet him ..her husband found and and wow what a mess...she told her husband she met a really nice lady who was married and had a family and she wanted her to fly to the states for a week. Her husband believed he bought her a plane ticket so she could go on this trip when he didn't hear from her for a couple of days he got someone to open up her chatroom files (cause He is computer stupid) and found out the name of the guy and the hotel they were staying in....needless to say they are divorced!!!!

paula · 09-20-2005, 03:36 PM

oops what did I do????? I only tried to correct a mistake..Sorry peeps

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09-20-2005, 11:18 AM	#31 (permalink)
Sol Sister Join Date: Dec 5 2004 Posts: 103 Rep Power: 0	Cayenne that last post was good stuff- if the couple cares to work it out. One drunk night talking smack with girls on the internet- could be fun/funny... but crossing lines like being physical with someone else or repeated contacts with people on the internet that takes away from the real-life relationship- wrong for me, but everyone has their lines that they draw. These stories are always a wake-up for the things we need to clear up with our own significant others, good opportunity for those that haven't yet made their lines clear to do so. I am not at all a jaded gal- my experiences have taught me to be open to all the wonderful things a solid committed relationship can provide- and part of that is being vulnerable and trusting the other person to do the right thing, but also to always be my own person... not an outright "plan B" but a seperate identity and relationship with friends/family/co-workers- we are not totally enmeshed in each others identities (and it's been nearly 12 years with 2 kids). A friend of mine said this about his wife one day, and at the time I thought it a little harsh, but given more thought- I really like it, "More than I want her married to me, I want her to be happy." I actually find it a kind statement- I'm not in it to control or hold any one back, but I have boudaries and so does he- so what we do from there we choose and know the consequences/rewards...

09-20-2005, 02:49 PM	#32 (permalink)
jowango Join Date: Sep 19 2005 Posts: 4 Rep Power: 0	There's nothing wrong with looking at the menue as long as you don't to eat what's available. When a women buys a magazine with Brad Pitt on the cover and reads about his love life while laying next to her man is it cheating? Or is it just "reading"?

09-20-2005, 02:54 PM	#33 (permalink)
Sweetness Join Date: Sep 1 2004 Posts: 779 Rep Power: 6	My brother in law, almost divorced his wife over it, things got out of hand, and she was basically bord with him. Now you can figure out the rest. They are still married and no MORE CHAT ROOMS!

09-20-2005, 03:00 PM	#34 (permalink)
CAYENNE2005 I love Derf!! Join Date: Jan 31 2005 Location: Around the corner Age: 40 Posts: 2,581 Rep Power: 127	Is there one with Brad Pitt naked, doing crazy things with certain things? I'Ll buy it! Does it have his email address so I can continue to comminacte with him on an hourly basis with pornographic conversation?? I'll do it!! Where can I get this?

09-20-2005, 03:16 PM	#35 (permalink)
electricparadise Waiting Confirmation Join Date: Dec 4 2002 Posts: 415 Rep Power: 0	Tsk! tsk!

09-20-2005, 03:34 PM	#36 (permalink)
paula Join Date: May 6 2005 Posts: 17 Rep Power: 0	I watched my best friends marriage fall apart when his wife got hooked on chat rooms..It started out inocent and then she met a guy flew to the states to meet him ..her husband found and and wow what a mess...she told her husband she met a really nice lady who was married and had a family and she wanted her to fly to the states for a week. Her husband believed her bought her a plane ticket so she could go on this trip when he didn't hear from her for a couple of days he got someone to open up her chatroom files (cause He is computer stupid) and found out the name of the guy and the hotel they were staying in....needless to say they are divorced!!!!

09-20-2005, 03:35 PM	#37 (permalink)
paula Join Date: May 6 2005 Posts: 17 Rep Power: 0	I watched my best friends marriage fall apart when his wife got hooked on chat rooms..It started out inocent and then she met a guy flew to the states to meet him ..her husband found and and wow what a mess...she told her husband she met a really nice lady who was married and had a family and she wanted her to fly to the states for a week. Her husband believed he bought her a plane ticket so she could go on this trip when he didn't hear from her for a couple of days he got someone to open up her chatroom files (cause He is computer stupid) and found out the name of the guy and the hotel they were staying in....needless to say they are divorced!!!!

09-20-2005, 03:36 PM	#38 (permalink)
paula Join Date: May 6 2005 Posts: 17 Rep Power: 0	oops what did I do????? I only tried to correct a mistake..Sorry peeps

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