Did she die or didn\'t she? - Page 2

sunshineshack · 08-01-2005, 02:59 PM

We got another tid bit of info today. We think they must of did a funeral in florida, because she wasn't here as soon as we were told she would be. She is supposed to get here today and put in the grave tomorrow. Still no invites. It is been so long now that open casket for my dad to see her is out of the question. He will remember her as a little 11 year old girl. Maybe this will be best. We will have our own memorial once we know everyone has left town. We are figuring they won't even put up a headstone in hopes we will never find her grave, but we will and we will put it up if we have to. We still don't know her married name, so we will use her maiden name if necessary.
I do appreciate those of you that have responded. This has given me an outlet for my frustrations. My husband doesn't quite understand our feelings. He basically acts like this has been so long that we don't know her anyway...so what is the point. Argh! I have been very angry at him for his attitude, too.

West Side Tanner · 08-28-2005, 01:15 PM

Go on-line, do a search. Bye the way, how is /was your vacation?

sunshineshack · 09-08-2005, 10:28 PM

Vacation is over....guess I need to change that, huh?!

mr belvedere · 09-09-2005, 01:09 AM

Life sucks sometimes. It's the people really, not the life. Did you do all you could? Then that is enough. Mourn her, and let her go. She'll know your heart, and you hers. Be in peace. It's the only way. Good luck.

tanthisbak · 09-09-2005, 05:43 PM

ooo,ooo I know this one! go to google and type in her full name. If I know FLORIDA and i think I do, all public information will be revealed. And from google do public seaches which in turn will lead to SS and there you will find all death info. I had so much fun doing it on all my friends. LOL

mr belvedere · 09-10-2005, 04:59 PM

You're scaring even me. I thought I was messed up. You're a True Crime episode waiting to happen!

West Side Tanner · 09-11-2005, 01:06 PM

Quote:
On 2005-09-09 16:43:00, tanthisbak wrote:
ooo,ooo I know this one! go to google and type in her full name. If I know FLORIDA and i think I do, all public information will be revealed. And from google do public seaches which in turn will lead to SS and there you will find all death info. I had so much fun doing it on all my friends. LOL

Your friends are all dead?

paula · 09-12-2005, 02:22 PM

Good Luck I hope you find all the information that you are looking for.
Sorry for your loss.

tanthisbak · 09-12-2005, 06:21 PM

I came across it by accident after my daddy passed. then i went to look for all my old freinds. Ya know divorces houses jail time offences traffic accidents DUI's You can even see how much they paid for their cardboard huts. It was a wealth of information. well, for me anyway. Most states charge for this information and if I keep talking so will florida. I found an ex from 30 yrs ago and found a dui and breaking and entry. So I sent him a postcard to his new home asking if he wanted to be the designated driver for a B&E. It was so funny. I never did get a response. I still laughing..

08-01-2005, 02:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
sunshineshack Join Date: Apr 30 2005 Posts: 47 Rep Power: 0	We got another tid bit of info today. We think they must of did a funeral in florida, because she wasn't here as soon as we were told she would be. She is supposed to get here today and put in the grave tomorrow. Still no invites. It is been so long now that open casket for my dad to see her is out of the question. He will remember her as a little 11 year old girl. Maybe this will be best. We will have our own memorial once we know everyone has left town. We are figuring they won't even put up a headstone in hopes we will never find her grave, but we will and we will put it up if we have to. We still don't know her married name, so we will use her maiden name if necessary. I do appreciate those of you that have responded. This has given me an outlet for my frustrations. My husband doesn't quite understand our feelings. He basically acts like this has been so long that we don't know her anyway...so what is the point. Argh! I have been very angry at him for his attitude, too.

08-28-2005, 01:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
West Side Tanner Join Date: Dec 27 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 2,548 Rep Power: 5	Go on-line, do a search. Bye the way, how is /was your vacation?

09-08-2005, 10:28 PM	#13 (permalink)
sunshineshack Join Date: Apr 30 2005 Posts: 47 Rep Power: 0	Vacation is over....guess I need to change that, huh?!

09-09-2005, 01:09 AM	#14 (permalink)
mr belvedere DERFERATOR Join Date: May 10 2005 Age: 39 Posts: 8,591 Rep Power: 52	Life sucks sometimes. It's the people really, not the life. Did you do all you could? Then that is enough. Mourn her, and let her go. She'll know your heart, and you hers. Be in peace. It's the only way. Good luck.

09-09-2005, 05:43 PM	#15 (permalink)
tanthisbak Waiting Confirmation Join Date: Jun 10 2005 Posts: 587 Rep Power: 0	ooo,ooo I know this one! go to google and type in her full name. If I know FLORIDA and i think I do, all public information will be revealed. And from google do public seaches which in turn will lead to SS and there you will find all death info. I had so much fun doing it on all my friends. LOL

09-10-2005, 04:59 PM	#16 (permalink)
mr belvedere DERFERATOR Join Date: May 10 2005 Age: 39 Posts: 8,591 Rep Power: 52	You're scaring even me. I thought I was messed up. You're a True Crime episode waiting to happen!

09-11-2005, 01:06 PM	#17 (permalink)
West Side Tanner Join Date: Dec 27 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 2,548 Rep Power: 5	Quote: On 2005-09-09 16:43:00, tanthisbak wrote: ooo,ooo I know this one! go to google and type in her full name. If I know FLORIDA and i think I do, all public information will be revealed. And from google do public seaches which in turn will lead to SS and there you will find all death info. I had so much fun doing it on all my friends. LOL Your friends are all dead?

09-12-2005, 02:22 PM	#18 (permalink)
paula Join Date: May 6 2005 Posts: 17 Rep Power: 0	Good Luck I hope you find all the information that you are looking for. Sorry for your loss.

09-12-2005, 06:21 PM	#19 (permalink)
tanthisbak Waiting Confirmation Join Date: Jun 10 2005 Posts: 587 Rep Power: 0	I came across it by accident after my daddy passed. then i went to look for all my old freinds. Ya know divorces houses jail time offences traffic accidents DUI's You can even see how much they paid for their cardboard huts. It was a wealth of information. well, for me anyway. Most states charge for this information and if I keep talking so will florida. I found an ex from 30 yrs ago and found a dui and breaking and entry. So I sent him a postcard to his new home asking if he wanted to be the designated driver for a B&E. It was so funny. I never did get a response. I still laughing..

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