Bizarre.........

[sundude]

Sorry because this really is a serious subject and anytime you feel threatened or uncomfortable you need to be ready for anything!
As Bill said maybe some classes on self defense

[dilworth]

I agree, my boyfriend has been teaching me some moves that deliver maximum power with little strength (I am a very small framed girl) and there are some moves that can stop a man long enough for you to get help (or to your mace)

I posted that story one reason only because I know that the only reason it happened was because I was too nice and shrugged off all the flags, it definately could have been much worse, but it was a lesson learned for me and all of us need to stop and think about it, are you prepared to handle a situation like that??

[billable]

University of North Florida
Bonnie Howell
4567 St. Johns Bluff Rd.
S. Jacksonville, FL 32224
Phone: 904-620-2801


Check with these people to see when the next class is scheduled.

[billable]

RAD is not a martial arts class. Check out their website.

RAD Systems: Rape Aggression Defense: The National Standard in Self Defense Education(tm)

[CAYENNE2005]

I would have grabbed a bat and beat the living dog $hit out of him! Then rolled him out of the salon and beat him more so I wouldn't have to mop! That's one sick MF! Jen, you should not work at night alone, or without the bat!

[JensSunQuest]

UNF is were I graduated college Bill....and your right you can't always reach your gun or pepper spray if your down the hall..... unless you glue it to you.... Perhaps I should have th other girls who work here take a class on me so that if it ever happened to them they could handle it.....I usually work one night alone and all other night have two people on until busy season.....:( Problem is now adays you can be sued for over reacting even if theres a good reason....

[JensSunQuest]

Bill R.A.D is a great program they should have all girls at a certain age take that!!

[cametotalktan]

Okay this is all good, but what about the first part where the girl says she met your b/f?

[fyregod]

I would call the cops next time he comes in. They can get his name (check his record) and issue him a trespass warning so next time he comes in he can be arrested and if that doesn't work go to court and have a restraining order issued.

[JensSunQuest]

A cop just told me he has to threaten me physically or verbal first....... Creepiness doesn't warrant a restraining order so they say but I suppose trespassing would work!
I know the whole claiming to be my boyfriend thing was the scary part of it all it means he thinks that........
The guy who owns the tatoo palor next door offered to wire an alarm between his palor and the salon so he could just run from next door...He was in here one day when the guy came in asking wierd questions and since has been very vigilant on checking in before I leave at night....