05-17-2014, 06:48 PM | #21 (permalink) |
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Rep Power: 16 | Re: Lurkers: Would you? A narcissist also has little or no insight into their own actions. They need to be constantly admired and feel entitled to the best treatment and to unquestioning compliance from everyone in their life. You can't win an argument with these types of people, even if you do win... you lose. Combative / Argumentative. The narcissist is like a snake, always looking for an opportunity to start an argument, and will fight incessantly (and pointlessly) about the same exact things, round and round for years and years. The narcissist will always be the one to start arguments, and often for no particular reason. The narcissist needs to win every argument, and will never stop raging.. until you back down first and allow him/her to have the last word. Beware though: The narcissist's last words, once he/she has reached a state of boiling rage, will always be cutting, insulting, abusive barbs meant to injure or even destroy you, if possible. Smile and nod. If the narcissist in your life is someone you cannot choose to avoid contact with, and you find yourself unable to tolerate flattering that person as often as is necessary, the next best option is to keep quiet. You will not gain any favor with the narcissist by keeping your mouth shut, but by not disagreeing with that person, you passively give the impression of agreement. I have decided to go with "Smile and Nod, coupled with Admiration" Route when dealing with Tony from here on out. Anyone else is welcome to join me to avoid being caught up in his game.
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05-17-2014, 09:58 PM | #23 (permalink) |
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Rep Power: 18 | Re: Lurkers: Would you? A narcissist also has little or no insight into their own actions. They need to be constantly admired and feel entitled to the best treatment and to unquestioning compliance from everyone in their life. You can't win an argument with these types of people, even if you do win... you lose. Sounds like your the narcissist to me. You obviously think your right which means you have little or no insight into your actions. You say you cant win an argument with these types of people yet you continue to argue? WOW look in the mirror you just described your actions to a "T"! :) Combative / Argumentative. The narcissist is like a snake, always looking for an opportunity to start an argument, Parrot started this one if you recall....PAY ATTENTION :) and will fight incessantly (and pointlessly) sounds like you again about the same exact things, round and round for years and years. The narcissist will always be the one to start arguments, so your calling parrot a narcissist? and often for no particular reason. The narcissist needs to win every argument, and will never stop raging.. until you back down first and allow him/her to have the last word. Beware though: The narcissist's last words, once he/she has reached a state of boiling rage, will always be cutting, insulting, abusive barbs meant to injure or even destroy you, if possible. This really does sound like you but you have to add hypocrite to the list too :) Smile and nod. If the narcissist in your life is someone you cannot choose to avoid contact with, and you find yourself unable to tolerate flattering that person as often as is necessary, the next best option is to keep quiet. You will not gain any favor with the narcissist by keeping your mouth shut, but by not disagreeing with that person, you passively give the impression of agreement. You should never gain favor from anyone if you speak hypocritically or ignorantly. I have decided to go with "Smile and Nod, coupled with Admiration" Route when dealing with Tony from here on out. Anyone else is welcome to join me to avoid being caught up in his game. This is very disingenuous Turbo and you know it. You are not using "smile and nod" You have made and continue to make the most egregious and judgmental claim against me compared to any other attacks on this site. You are truly sick. You camouflage your attempt to garner support and allies because you cant defend your ridiculous comments and attacks alone! How pathetic! |
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Rep Power: 16 | Re: Lurkers: Would you? Awwww, there you are Tons. I missed you! I was hoping you would add your awesome insight. I was sitting here seething w/jealously w/out you. You're so smart & successful!! (Smiles & Nods)
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feel but trying to act all "cute" makes you look silly! xoxo hugs and kisses :) | |
05-17-2014, 10:21 PM | #27 (permalink) |
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Rep Power: 16 | Re: Lurkers: Would you? Lol, I know Tons. I'm a silly, narcissistic stalker. That stalks my own thread. However does someone as brilliant as you put up w/us idiots? It must be exceptionally difficult for you to keep trying to get us to understand. Can you help us to understand? (Smiles & nods)
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Stop stalking me you narcissist! | |
05-17-2014, 10:34 PM | #29 (permalink) |
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Rep Power: 16 | Re: Lurkers: Would you? Golly Tons, I just can't help myself. I'm sure you get that alot being so successful and intelligent. I was hoping you would mentor me w/your infinite wisdom? (Smiles & nods)
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