True BronzeBabe, I am very passionate about this industry as well. Once you have typed your comments take a look at them and see if there are any words that offend you if it was written by someone else. Try to take negative words and replace them with words that mean the same but not as threatening. For instance, I rarely use the word problem any more. Whether it is with my staff or my family. Problem indicates they have done something wrong therefore they immediately go on the defense as I'm sure I would. So, now I replace the word problem with concern or issue. Less threatening and it makes it sound more of what I feel. If I'm concerned about a subject then the person I am talking to about it feels that I am concerned about them as well. Not upset with them because they caused a problem. Just my little ways of trying to help make things nicer at work and with my own surroundings. |